My 2012 Reading List

More than anything else, I use this blog to review books – especially those that I find particularly interesting or I think will most significantly benefit those of us who occupy the second chair. I have assembled quite a large stack of books that will be on my 2012 reading list. Here is a partial list – in no particular order:

  1. Becoming a Coaching Leader, Daniel Harkavay
  2. The Litigator, John Grisham
  3. I Am A Follower, Len Sweet
  4. Search & Rescue, Neil Cole
  5. Coaching 101, Logan & Carlton
  6. Bloodlines, John Piper
  7. Tipping Point, Malcom Gladwell
  8. Switch, Heath & Heath
  9. blink, Malcom Gladwell
  10. Leaders Who Last, Kraft
  11. Real Marriage, Driscoll
  12. not a fan, Idleman
  13. Made to Stick, Heath & Heath
  14. Reimagining Church, Viola
  15. Foregiveness Formula, Hitz & Hitz
  16. War Room, Dawson
  17. Gracenomics, Foster
  18. Spiritual Conversations, Rohrmayer
  19. The Way of the Wild Heart, Eldridge
  20. Dug Down Deep, Harris
  21. Generous Justice, Keller
  22. The Reason for God, Keller
  23. Assured of Heaven, Ricker
  24. Connect, Perry

There are a few others that I am looking at but haven’t put in the stack just yet. Any suggestions?

Are You Living the Cross Centered Life?

In his book, Living the Cross Centered Life, C.J. Mahaney reminds us the words of Paul that the cross is the only essential tenet of our faith (1 Corinthians 15.1,3). And he suggests that we face constant temptation to move away from that essential in three common areas: subjectivism, legalism, and condemnation. (p. 16). Mahaney writes:

“The message Paul had for Timothy is the same message God has for you. You need to rediscover the truth. They key to joy, to growth, to passion isn’t hiding from you. It’s right before your eyes.

It’s the gospel.” (p. 30)

Through the rest of this little book Mahaney does his best to help us come face-to-face with the purity of the Gospel and to fall in love with the reality of the grace of the Gospel.

“For when you’re deeply aware of your sin, and of what an affront it is to God’s holiness, and of how impossible it is for him to respond to this sin with anything other that furious wrath – you can only be overwhelmed with how amazing grace is.

Only those who are truly aware of their sin can truly cherish grace.” (p. 88).

In those two sentences Mahaney seems to identify the great challenge of our age: the absence of sin. As a concept, sin has been identified as a leftover from the dark ages that no longer applies to contemporary life. Perhaps a few quaint religious types still believe in sin but not the more intelligent masses. Mahaney is correct then that one will not love the gospel (or “cherish grace”) apart from an awareness of their sin.

The intellectually honest seeker of God will consider the entire gospel narrative that begins with creation, then the fall, followed by God’s relentless pursuit of mankind to reconcile and restore them to himself in that relationship that existed in creation!  In that context the harsh reality of the cross where “Jesus does’t just feel forsaken; he is forsaken” (p. 94) challenges the assertion that sin is just a quaint, outdated concept.  Jesus didn’t go to the cross because of a concept.

I appreciate Mahaney’s challenge on p. 109: “Let the cross always be the treasure of your heart, your best and highest thought…and your passionate preoccupation.”

Living the Cross Centered Life is a volume that should be part of your library and should be re-read annually.


Black Nativity Inspires!

Sunday night Julie and I attended one of the most inspirational and deeply spiritual events in recent memory. The Black Nativity was presented at the historic Moore Theater in downtown Seattle. As we found our front-row seats we wondered if perhaps we were seated too close. Those concerns were quickly erased as the program began and the auditorium was filled with music!

Langston Hughes wrote this “Gospel Song Story” fifty years ago and it has been produced on American stages every year since. This is the 14th year in Seattle and will hopefully be produced for many, many years to come. Through dance, song, brilliant colors, dramatic narration, and pageantry the story of Jesus birth unfolded before us with a beauty and intensity that I’ve never seen or heard before. Such talent! Such joy! Such energy! I worshiped Jesus that night!!

The second half of the program was a review of the immense talent of this cast as we were transported to a Gospel Church worship service. The host/narration here by both Pastor Pat Wright and Pastor Alphonso Meadows was outstanding. This portion of the program was filled with singing, dancing, and laughter – lots of laughter! A stand-out among a series of wonderful performances was the duet of ‘Ava Maria’ by Camella Recchi and Leonard Piggee. It was simply amazing.

I’m so glad that we had front row seats for this experience! I can’t wait to see it again and again year after year. In fact, I wouldn’t mind seeing again THIS year!

The Black Nativity appears at Seattle’s Moore Theater nighty through December 24.

Average Joe

Since my name is Joe I was intrigued by the title of this book and requested a copy through Watermark’s Blogging for Books program. I’m glad I did. Troy Meeder does a great job weaving real-life stories (several from his own life) about everyday, ordinary men who make an extra-ordinary impact on the lives of those around them. In a real sense, these men are heroes for today – not because of their profession or popularity – but because of their single-minded commitment to core values of honesty, integrity, and loyalty.

Average Joe is a book that all men (and especially second chair leaders) should read. If they do, they will read stories about men who work with power tools for a living, men who can navigate s small vessel through storms, men who defend liberty on the battlefield, and men who sit high in the saddle. All of these men define what it means to be a friend and brother. These are not the stories of the successful leaders of high corporations or enormous churches. These are the men you see every day in your neighborhood, riding the bus, or sitting in from to you at church. Many of them have pretty remarkable stories of what it means to lead successfully – often two or three steps behind the man or woman with the title and the corner office. Men who are living lives of “normalcy and ‘never enough’.”

I was pleased to see a brief study guide included in the book that will help small groups of men discuss these ideas and encourage one another in their pursuit of honesty, integrity, and loyalty. These are values that seem to be universally appreciated by men and so often appear in our literary heroes. However, they also seem to be universally absent in our pop-culture heroes (i.e., celebrities). That may be the main reason that this book will resonate with men. It would be a good book to use in a men’s small group or with some friends. It’s only 148 pages long so it is a pretty accessible book – even for most men.

Meeder does a good job relating these stories to the character of God and how he values (based on the biblical narrative) the ‘average Joe’s’ of this world. If you struggle with feeling ‘good enough’ for God, this book may help give you some insights to challenge that concept. If you are a second chair leader who struggles with being the guy two steps outside of the spotlight this book may help to correct your thinking and empower you to serve with a renewed sense of worth and passion.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Waterbrook Multnomah Publishers as part of their Blogging for Books program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

I Sold Out for $4.99!

We are not major coupon clippers – just a few here and there. But when it came time to do our shopping for Thanksgiving dinner we assembled a stack of coupons and headed off to Fred Meyer in hopes of scoring a free turkey. We were pretty sure we could meet the $150 threshold required to get a frozen bird for “free.” Our strategy included a little stocking up and holding a few higher priced items ’til the end to toss in at the last moment if needed. No need. We were in great shape – coming in at about $160. So with the turkey bonus well in hand I did it. Something that I had never done before anywhere. I asked for the senior discount!

At this store seniors get an extra 10% off certain items every Tuesday in November and December. Altogether we discounted our purchases by over $60 when combined with a rewards card, store coupons, manufacturers coupons, the turkey coupon, and the senior discount. When I tallied up the individual discounts I discovered that the senior discount saved us $4.99. Hey – it’s five bucks! Nothing to sneeze at, right?

Well, maybe. But now I’ve gone public about the fact that I am 55. I voluntarily steeped into a demographic that I don’t feel at all ready for. What’s next? Senior housing? Safe driving classes? Eating off the senior’s menu? Am I going to arrange my shopping around senior discount day? Maybe I could take my parents with me! They’ve been collecting the senior discount for years.

And maybe that’s the real issue for me. Maybe that’s why I feel like I sold my soul for $4.99. I’ve become my parents. As hard as I might push back against the clock, time continues to move along. Days become decades. Children get married. Grandchildren are born. Refusing to take the senior discount won’t change that. So I will embrace my new economic windfall and ask for the senior coffee the next time I’m at McDonalds! I’ll save a seat for you.

It’s A Start

I’ve waited a while to write this post and am even a little tentative about writing it today.

I’ve lost 20 lbs.

I’ve been overweight for a while but I just kept eating. And eating. And eating. I’ve heard that people tend to gain about 10lbs per decade. That’s just one pound per year. I like to tell people that one pound amounts to four quarter-pound meals at McDonalds in  year. Just four more than usual! Or just a few second or third baskets of chips at Azteca. One pound pound per year! You wouldn’t even notice your clothes fitting tighter until year 7 or 8!

So in the past two months I have rolled back the clock two decades worth! It feels great. My blood pressure is lower, my wife says I don’t snore as much, and I’m fitting into clothing sizes that were a distant memory.

But I’m still a bit leery of celebrating too much because I think I’m only half way. According to my medical provider I’m at a BMI of 27.53 (down from 30.41) when I should be 24. So I still have some work to do. I’ve lost 10% of my weight and I have another 10% to go to be where I should. That would put me close to my weight in college and when I got married. It’s hard to imagine being that weight again but I’m going to give it a try during the most difficult dietary season in America: The Holidays!

These days “The Holiday’s” run from Halloween to Super Bowl. That’s more than 3 months of super-sized meals, desserts, candy dishes, and snacks. But with two months of practice I think I’m ready to face this challenge. I’ve been using the Smarter for Life diet plan where you eat six 100-calorie cookies throughout the day (about 1 every 2 hours) and then eat a lighter supper with some protein. I know that if I’d followed the diet to the letter I would have lost more but I’m pleased with my progress. I’ve also been walking about 7 times per week along a 2.5 mile route in our neighborhood with some steep hills. I’m pretty sure that in order to continue making progress the number and distance of the walks will need to increase.

So I won’t post every week about this journey – perhaps monthly over the next three months just to record my progress. I’d appreciate hearing your suggestions for pushing through the plateaus.

Church Diversity

I only know Scott Williams from a distance but due to the wonders of the internet I feel like I’ve known him for years. He has a great story – one that continues to be written. In Church Diversity Scott shares much of his story with his readers. Central to that story are the complexities of the lack of diversity in the vast number of American churches. It is a point that is worth making and worth fighting to change.

I serve on a denominational board (Converge Worldwide) where we have worked hard to address the lack of diversity among our ranks. The makeup of our current board may be its most diverse ever. But with only one notable exception all of our upper level leaders are white males. The same holds true for regional directors. I’m also on a sub-committee that is planning our next national event. We are deeply committed to highlighting the diversity that exists in our churches throughout the event. But while this will celebrate diversity on one level it will not directly increase the diversity in our member churches. That is where Church Diversity comes in  -  or could.

Scott Williams very intentionally and methodically pokes a stick in the eye of the church on this topic. And he doesn’t just call out churches that are predominately white in their make-up. In chapter 3 Williams writes: “This is a wake-up call for the traditional ethnic churches, such as black, Indian, Asian, and Hispanic. The arguments that “we must remain separate because it’s about the community” or “it’s the only piece of culture that we have left” are not valid arguments. They are incongruent with who Jesus is and what the gospel is all about. Is your church preserving culture of some people or presenting the gospel to all people?”

Later Williams asks why churches use the Great Commission to justify international missions but so often fail to pursue the Great Commission (especially the ‘all nations’ part) in their own churches. He refers to this as the Great Omission.

Throughout his book Williams quotes heavily from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and for good reason. Dr. King addressed the racial disparity in the church decades ago. And while we would like to believe that the ethnic diversity within our churches has changed dramatically over the past 60 years, Williams argues that it has not. To make his point he re-prints a letter written in 1954 by Dr. King and provides commentary along the way. It is a letter worth reading and re-reading.

One of the primary strengths of Williams’ book are the challenges that he presents at the end of each chapter. They  are a kind of gut-check for personal diversity that takes the information in each chapter and asks, “So what are you going to do about this?” Another strength are the video links with each chapter that would enable the book to be used for a group study.

This book is not going to be for everyone. There will be some who see diversity as a non-issue, or a cultural issue, or even as a liberal issue that doesn’t apply to the church. There are those who may still cling to a “separate but equal” approach to church. “They have their church and we have our church. What’s the problem?” To that comment I would have to reply that if that’s your position then you are the problem. When it comes to diversity in the church we can do better. We must do better.

Second chair leaders can advance diversity within the church by advocating for and championing this cause with the rest of the staff and church. When you are looking for additional paid or volunteer staff be intentional about contacting people who are not members of the majority ethnic group in your church. Some key, high visibility positions like usher, greeter, or choir member are a good place to start. But your church leadership (pastors, staff, elders, deacons) should also reflect diversity. This may be harder to achieve but be persistent. Nominate those who will bring diversity to your leadership team. Make sure your website and publications include photos that reflect the diversity in your church – or the diversity that you want to see.

What specific, intentional steps are you taking to bring diversity to your church?

Back to a Mac

After a four-year absence I have switched back to a Mac laptop. My old Dell was just getting road-weary. I was afraid to turn it off for fear that it wouldn’t start up. It was heavy and clunky and could no longer perform at its peak. If it had been Old Yeller I might have taken it out to the back 40 and put it out of it’s misery. As it is, we hope to reformat the hard drive, re-install Windows and put it into rotation at the registration desk for our children’s ministry.

I’ve owned an iPad2 for a few months so I’ve become reacqauinted with many of the fine features that Apple has to offer but sitting at this MacBook Pro is simply an amazing experience! The touch pad is technological marvel – swiping pages in Safari is pretty cool. The multi-finger open and close motions, etc. And it’s all pretty intuitive, too. Once I partition the drive, install Windows and Publisher (the ONLY reason I need Windows) so I can continue to collaborate on Publisher-based projects I will be all set.  Perhaps the best thing about the entire Apple experience are the Apple store employees. I would love to get my hands on their customer service training manual (it’s probably available only in a digital version!). Every individual was very helpful. The purchase experience is unique. No schlepping your purchases to the check-out line – they just complete your order on their ubiquitous iPad’s, email you the receipt while the computer is being personally delivered to you by another associate – who just seems to appear from nowhere – and off you go. Even the bag they place your items in is unique.

I’ve signed up for the One-To-One service and will attend my first class soon. I’m anxious to have them help me create my first iMovie! Plus I just want to learn how to take full advantage of the features that are packed into this amazing device.

Perhaps the one thing that surprised me the most was the competitive pricing. WHile there are dozens of PC’s out there selling for under $1,000 it quickly became apparent that those machines would barely replace what I had. They were stripped down basic models. By the time I upgraded to an i5 processor and got the features my job demands the MacBook Pro was comparable. The service, warranty, and reliability of the MacBook made it an easy choice. Will it mean I’ll be posting to SecondChair more frequently? We’ll just have to wait and see!

Generosity

(Introduction to a 5 part series)

Secondchair church leaders don’t preach very often. It’s not part of their role. I preach 2-3 times per year and that’s fine with me. I’ve been a sr pastor before and preached every Sunday but I prefer teaching in groups over preaching. This Sunday I am filling the pulpit while our sr pastor is gone. I have chosen to speak on the topic of Generosity. I am approaching the topic with this thread:

Generosity is an attribute of God. He is generous toward us because we are his treasure.

Generosity is an attribute of a Christ-follower. They are generous toward God and others because Jesus is their treasure.

We will dive into 2 Corinthians 9.6-15 and explore our motives for giving. Do we give out of obligation? Do we give to get? Or do we give to give more?

So, I was just wondering? How has God demonstrated his generosity toward you recently? Would you care to share your story?

Our God Is A Generous God

First In A Series (of 5)

When we think about God’s attributes we can develop a pretty familiar list:

He is unchangeable, eternal, omnipresent, omniscient, truthful, faithful, and wise. We would include his goodness, love, mercy, grace, patience, holiness, peace, perfection, blessedness, beauty, glory, wrath, jealousy, and righteousness.

But have you ever thought of God as generous? The dictionary defines generosity this way:

1. Liberality in giving or willingness to give

2. Willingness to give money, help, or time freely

3. Giving more than required

It is possible then, to speak of several of God’s attributes under the heading of generosity. Look at how God’s generosity toward us in described:

Isaiah 55.7

Let the wicked change their ways
and banish the very thought of doing wrong.
Let them turn to the LORD that he may have mercy on them.
Yes, turn to our God, for he will forgive generously.

Hosea 2.9

“But now I will take back the ripened grain and new wine
I generously provided each harvest season.

Romans 10.12

Jew and Gentile are the same in this respect. They have the same Lord, who gives generously to all who call on him.

John 1.16

From his abundance we have all received one gracious blessing after another.

2 Corinthians 9.8

And God will generously provide all you need. Then you will always have everything you need and plenty left over to share with others.

2 Corinthians 9.10

For God is the one who provides seed for the farmer and then bread to eat. In the same way, he will provide and increase your resources and then produce a great harvest of generosity in you.

It’s clear that God is a generous God.

Why?

Next post: Why is God so generous with us?

You Are Treasured by God!

Second in a series (of 5).

Why is God generous with those he loves? Why does he promise to provide for you? Why does he bother to listen to your prayers? Why does he forgive you? Why did he send his son to die for your sins?

Romans 5.8 But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.

What is so generous about that?  It’s pretty simply actually. Sin separates us from God – God is holy and without sin. He hates sin so much that it is like the stench of death in his nostrils – he will have nothing to do with it. Because of your sin he will have nothing to do with us. You deserve nothing less than total separation from God and death.  So, his willingness to extend grace to you – to give you what you don’t deserve – and his willingness to extend mercy to you – not giving you what we you deserve  – but instead to establish a pathway to forgiveness for you is VERY generous!  It’s generous because he didn’t have to do it.  But he did.  Why?

Why would God choose to send his son to live within the limitations of human life and die through the most horrible form of capital punishment ever devised in order to pay the penalty of your sin? Why would he be this generous to you?  One reason: You are God’s treasure!  Do you know that God treasures you?  He does!  It’s clear that you are on his heart – that he loves you deeply.  If you have his heart, then you are his treasure.  The Bible is filled with stories about how much he loves you, how he forgives you, how he pours out his graciousness and loving kindness on you.  And since you don’t deserve any of that you can’t help but see God as extremely generous with you.

James 1.18: And we, out of all creation, became his prized possession.

1 John 3.1 1See how very much our Father loves us, for he calls us his children, and that is what we are!

God possesses many great attributes and a common thread through many of them is his generosity – especially his generosity when extending forgiveness to his children.  And he does this because you are his treasure!

How do you know that God treasures you?

Next post in the Generosity series – The Attributes of a Christ -follower

Living a Life of Generosity

Third in a series (of 5).

In part one of this series we looked at some of the attributes of God and discussed how generously he exhibits those characteristics with us. In part two we discovered that we are God’s treasure demonstrated by the depth of his love for us.  Look with me now at some of the attributes of a Christ-follower. There are actually some lists that help here:

Gal 5.22,23 But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no blaw against these things!

Philippians 4.4-9 Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again—rejoice! Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing.

John 13.35 – Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples

John 14. 15 If you love me, obey my commandments

Romans 12.1-21 – transformational living (open to change), using gifts for others

A common thread in all of these passages is that we are to liberally use the gifts that God has given us for others. Even our joy is for others to see and our love for one another is meant to prove to the world the reality of Jesus in our lives. In other words we are called on to be a generous people and to live lives of generosity. In much the same way that God has been generous toward us we are called on to be generous toward him and toward others. There is no place in the Bible where we are instructed to withhold love, encouragement, kindness, gentleness, or possessions. In fact, a simple study of God’s Word quickly reveals how we are to be stewards of what he gives to us by using it for the kingdom. Somewhere we have gotten off track by using the word steward to justify hoarding and stinginess. But this is not God’s way – thankfully! He has been exceedingly generous with every one of us. Not withholding his love or provision – ever! The parable of the three servants in Matthew 25 teaches us that Jesus expects us to use what he gives us for the kingdom. It is not to be buried in the ground or held on to for a rainy day. I don’t think it’s a mistake that the parable of the sheep and goats immediately follows. I believe that Jesus is saying to his follows – “Be generous with what I have given to you. There are people all around you who have physical and spiritual needs. I have given you the resources to meet those needs.”

And while we almost automatically apply generosity to our finances I don’t think that it ends there. Remember those fruit of the Spirit? Love, joy peace, patience, etc. How about being generous with those, too? Are you unconditionally liberal with your love toward others? Do you jump at expressing joy over what God has done for you and others? Do you constantly pursue peace? Do you repeatedly portray patience with your family or co-worker? Do your neighbors think of you as one who keeps on being kind? Are you great at showing goodness to others? Do you focus on being faithful in keeping your word and your vows? Do you generously give gentleness – even to those other drivers? Do you strive to develop self-control? Do you project praise of God and what he is doing in your life and in the life of those around you? Do you faithfully fix your thoughts on those things that are pure, honorable, true, and admirable? Are you continuously embracing change in your life?

Generosity, then, extends beyond our finances to every area of our lives. So let me ask: Are you a generous person? Does your generosity reflect God’s generosity toward you?

Does Giving Get You More?

Fourth in a series (of 5)

The theme of generosity runs through 2 Corinthians 8 & 9.

In chapter 8 Paul is explaining to the Corinthian church about an offering that is being collected for the poverty-stricken church in Jerusalem.  For many of these Jewish Christians their conversion to Christianity had cut them off from family and employment. Times were really tough.  So Paul asked the Gentile Christians to help them out – in part hoping that their generosity toward the Jerusalem church would help to bring about a stronger relationship between the two churches. Paul explains  to the Corinthians in vv. 1-5 that the uber-poor Macedonians gave generously toward this offering.

Don’t miss v 3. Paul writes that these people actually gave more than they could afford and begged for the opportunity to give even more!  While we might be tempted to describe such behavior as foolish –the Bible calls it generosity!

From this example of generosity we can identify several lessons of what our generosity should look like:

1. v3  – Gave from free will

2.  v 4 – Considered it a privilege to give

3. v 8 – Is a demonstration of their love for God

4. Chpt 9 v 2 – enthusiastic giving is contagious –  it spurs others on

The lessons on Christian giving continues in 2 Corinthians 9. 6-11a with an emphasis on the direct results of living a life of generosity with the law of sowing and reaping.

There is no other exact parallel to Paul’s statement here but it is similar to Luke 6.3 “Give, and you will receive”and Galatians 6.7 “You will harvest what you plant”

Paul describes what that harvest looks like in v 8. There’s that word “generously” again and notice here that your needs will be met and you will have enough left over to share with others.

This verse does not teach that if you give you will get. This is not wealth and prosperity gospel.

In fact, even though you will receive more only your needs will be met because you will be giving more and more away. In God’s economy some of the richest people will be those who possess the least and the amount they give away may exceed those who have posses more.

It’s clear that God is generous with us. It’s also clear that God wants us to be generous with what he has given us. 2 Corin 9.6-11a  tells us that God will provide – in fact REPLACE – what we give so that we can give again, and again.

As Paul continues he explains why God established this principle. In 2 Corinth 9.11b – 15 the word generous/generosity appears leaving no question of what is expected of us because our generosity is credited to God’s generosity  who gave us these resources in the first place!

Three times in just 3 verses Paul states that the end result of your generosity will be that others will: 1) thank God.  2) They will joyfully thank God. 3) They will joyfully express their thanks to God!

This sow and reap principle not only provides replacement resources and more to the generous giver but it also brings glory to God. Some mistakenly interpret this passage to mean that if I tithe – give just 10% – then God will reward me and I’ll get even more! So the best way to get is to give. This viewpoint really misses the mark.

I think its best described by one of Randly Alcorn’s treasure principles: God increases your income not to raise your standard of living but to raise your standard of giving. His point is that if you are able to live on $40,000 and tithe on that income then as your income increases you ought to be able to give away an even greater percentage. Nearly 100% of the time, Christians simply increase their standard of living.

We might continue to tithe so we are in fact giving away more –but not as much as we could if we chose to live more simply and give away at a higher rate.

What have you chosen to give up so that you can give away more?

What Motivates You to Give?

Last in a series.

Does living a life of generosity appeal to you? Would you like to be part of God’s generosity to others and be used by God to cause others to glorify him? 2 Corinthians 8-9 provides you with a road map for living a life of generosity.

The journey begins with being generous with what God has already given you. What does it mean to be generous? You might begin by taking a look at your tax statement. What was your total income in 2009? How much of that did you give toward kingdom work? 2% 5% 10%? According to a 2007 McClatchy study, Americans making more than $20,000 per year gave an average 2.3% of their income to all charities, while those who made less than $20,000 gave 4.3 %.

But regardless of what you give toward kingdom work last year – even if it was 10% or more – was it generous? One way to discover the answer to that is to ask why you give what you give. Is it the minimum amount required? Does it meet – but not exceed – an obligation? Or is it out of exceeding gratitude to what God has given you? Do you give because Jesus is your treasure? If Jesus is not your treasure and your money/possessions are then Scripture would suggest that you should give more because where your treasure is there your heart will also be. Your heart follows your money. If you want to treasure Jesus more then give more of your treasure to him!

Your generous forgiveness toward others means that you can live in peace and unity with them. Your generosity of unconditional love toward your husband or wife keeps your marriage from becoming another unfortunate statistic. Your generosity of care and concern for that relative or neighbor can actually cause people to praise God for his generosity. Allow that same attitude of generosity to impact your financial resources, too.

What will you do today – this week – to take a first step toward living a life of generosity? Since God has been so generous toward you how can you be anything less toward others and toward him?

Direction Determines Destination

I was excited to have the opportunity to review Andy Stanley’s “The Principle of The Path” for BookSneeze. com (Thomas Nelson publishers). After all, Stanley is one of the finest communicators that I have read or heard. “The Path” is classic Stanley – well written, well told stories that deftly illustrate his premise that we choose our destination when we choose the path we will take. Stanley says, “Direction – not intention – determines our destination.”(p.14)

How often have we heard other people’s stories of how shocked they are to find themselves in the situation they are in? After years of buying every latest gadget or taking elaborate vacations and buying a new car every other year they are puzzled as to why they are in financial turmoil. Or the parents who are extra-permissive with their children throughout their elementary and pre-teen years and are surprised when their teenagers wind up in trouble at school or with law enforcement! Couldn’t they see it coming? We sure did!

Stanley challenges his readers to listen to that voice of wisdom or that advice you get from those with a bit more experience and make decisions that are consistent with the destination you want to arrive at. He writes, “The day will come when you’ll look back and think, What if I hadn’t acted wisely? What if I’d chosen the easy path? ” (p. 50). He concludes chpt 4 with: “When you see trouble coming, take refuge. Change direction.Because it is the direction of your life that will determine your destination.”(p. 55).

As I read “The Path” I was impressed with the value of this book for young adults. This should be required reading for all college freshman or for all pre-marital counseling. Of course, most of us wouldn’t listen to this sound advice at that age so what are we to do when we are middle-age (or older)? Stanley recommends that we take action: “But now that you are aware of how all this works, you have the opportunity to embrace this principle and leverage it for your benefit. Now you are in a position to choose your destination rather than discovering it once you arrive. But choosing will require change.” (p. 153)

At the same time Stanley recognizes that some are already at their destination and it’s not exactly where they thought they would end up (even though their decisions clearly sent them down the path toward this destination). Stanley uses the story of David and Absalom and the words of Jesus in the Garden to illustrate his point:

“On the night of his arrest, Jesus knew that his time on earth was drawing to an end. And he did not like the way it was ending. So he prayed, “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me” (Luke 22.42). In other words, If I were writing this script, there wouldn’t be an arrest. There would be no flogging. And there would be no cross. But then Jesus echoed the words of David, “Yet not my will, but yours be done” (v. 42). That’s the prayer of the man and woman who are faced with a destination not of their choosing but continue to trust the One who has led them there” (p. 173).

The Principle of the Path includes a helpful 10-session study guide for small group use.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their Book Review Blogger program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

How “Radical” Are You?

In the spirit of “God Is The Gospel” by John Piper, “Crazy Love” by Francis Chan, and “The Hole In Our Gospel” by Rich Stearns, David Platt adds his voice to the increasing chorus of Christian leaders who are calling Christ-followers to live lives of obedience and surrender to Jesus. In “Radical” Platt adds his rich and valuable insights to what has already been written and lays out a guide for implementation.

Early on Platt states the purpose of his book: “In this book I want to show you that, with the best of intentions, we have actually turned away from Jesus…..Here we stand amid an American dream dominated by self-advancement, self-esteem, and self-sufficiency, by individualism, materialism, and universalism….We need to return with urgency to a biblical Gospel, because the cost of doing nothing is so great for our lives, our families, our churches, and the world around us.” (p. 19) I couldn’t agree more.

Platt attacks head-on the weakness of all-too-many American churches that teach a disingenuous gospel that has people trade a raised hand or a check-mark on a decision card for eternal salvation. (As if Jesus died for a check mark!) “Jesus is no longer one to be accepted or invited in but one who is infinitely worthy of our immediate and total surrender.” (p.38) Throughout his book Platt calls for response to the Gospel that transcends accepting, inviting, or receiving Jesus. Words matter and those three words are not found in the Bible when it comes to following Jesus.

How far has the American dream polluted the gospel with a self-centered ‘what’s-in-it-for-me’ mentality? Just ask people why they attend their church and you’re sure to hear a litany of how well the church serves their needs with programs, comfortable chairs, and enjoyable music. Platt  contends that biblical Christianity is “God loves me so that I might make him – his ways, his salvation, his glory, his greatness – known among all nations.” (p. 70) The Gospel is not about us, it’s all about God. Everything that God has done for us in Jesus is so that we might make much of him. Jesus didn’t die for our happiness or our comfort but for his glory.

These are familiar themes that you will read in the books previously mentioned. But “Radical” sets itself apart when Platt challenges his readers to conduct a ‘Radical Experiment.’ This one-year experiment has five components:

1. pray for the entire world;

2. read through the entire Word;

3. sacrifice your money for a specific purpose;

4. spend your time in another context;

5. commit your life to a multiplying community.

Platt takes great care to expand these five challenges in meaningful ways that equip the reader to accept his challenge. Additionally, there are other resources at RadicalTheBook.com to help the individual reader or small group to begin a radical adventure!

I found “Radical” to be a helpful and challenging book. Platt is a good communicator who clearly addresses core issues that are vital to the church and to all Christ-followers. The Radical Experiment is well-presented and attainable and could be easily attempted by the vast majority of Christians. If even a fraction of those who read “Radical” would complete the Experiment there would indeed be a radical shift in the church. One can only imagine the eternal impact if they would.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Waterbrook Multnomah Publishers as part of their Blogging for Books program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Generous Justice

A century ago the conservative “fundamental” believers in the church came to believe that social ministries were at best a distraction from the spiritual ministry of the church if not a sign that these more liberal believers in the church had traded the true Gospel for a watered-down social gospel. This divide continued well into the 1980′s and 90′s but has recently shown signs of reversal.  Through a variety voices a new commitment to “seek justice” is emerging in churches. Timothy Keller is one of those voices.

Keller’s Generous Justice is a brief volume (189 pages) that serves as a clarion call to followers of Jesus to extend grace and justice to those in our communities who are impoverished and oppressed. In this book Keller presents a thorough and balanced study of scripture to support that call. “Like Isaiah, Jesus taught that a lack of concern for the poor is not a minor lapse, but reveals that something is seriously wrong with one’s spiritual compass, the heart.” (p. 51).  In other words, if you don’t care about the poor your spiritual health is in serious trouble!

Especially helpful are two chapters (5 & 6) that provide a strong argument for why we should do justice (Chpt 5) and how we should do justice (Chpt 6). Ministry leaders will find these two chapters to be immensely helpful in shaping and clarifying their own journey of doing justice. Second chair leaders will be able to tap into a good resource to use when coaching and mentoring. There is also good material here for small groups to wrestle with.

I personally found the final chapter – Peace, Beauty, and Justice – to be the most helpful and motivating. As one who has used the simple word “Shalom” to sign off on most of my correspondence for the past 30 years, Keller’s description of four forms of shalom breathed new life into my use of the term. He identifies physical, emotional, social, and spiritual shalom. (p. 174).

Why should you read Generous Justice? Consider Keller’s final sentence: “A life poured out in doing justice for the poor is the inevitable sign of any real, true gospel faith.” (p 189). The rest of the book serves as his basis for making that claim. Read it to find out if you agree or disagree with his. conclusion.

For a more extensive review of Generous Justice be sure to check out joelws.com

A Tacoma Restaurant Gem

My wife and I enjoy trying out new restaurants and the Seattle-Tacoma area gives us plenty of opportunities to do so. Yesterday afternoon we enjoyed sidewalk dining on what was probably the last 80 degree + day until some time next July. Our destination was Pomodoro in the Tacoma’s Proctor neighborhood. This iconic Italian restaurant has been serving up delicious classic Italian food for years but it was our first visit.

Julie ordered the Eggplant Parmesean and I ordered Spaghetti with Meatballs. As soon as the plates arrived at our table we knew we were in for a great meal experience. We ordered house salads with their signature blue cheese dressing. The extra flavors in this salad were evidence that Pomodoro does not serve out-of-the-package meals. And the main courses continued to please and surprise the palate. A very tasty and unique marinara sauce was generously applied over our meals. The meatballs were so much more than Ikea meatballs covered with sauce. These were huge meatballs formed by someone’s hands – not pressed out of some machine! The portions were very generous and we each took leftovers home!  I might even be inspired to try making some home made marinara sauce of my own!

Pomodoro’s is a one-of-a-kind Italian restaurant serving up well-prepared meals that vastly out-distance the national chains and even most other local places. This is not fast food so don’t expect fast food prices or portions. Our entrees were around $15 each. Well worth the price of two meals this good! We’ll go back often.

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